31 January 2009

Fr. Matthew speaks to Houston!

At the end of September, Young Adults from around the church gathered in Houston, TX for A Brand New Way. It was a great conference! Here is a video that Fr. Matthew created for us on Evangelism.



I found it over at this great new blog, St. Paul's Reflections.

What's in, What's out!

So I signed into AOL this evening and came across this. I enjoyed it and hope you will too.

Check it out here

28 January 2009

Holocaust Memorial Day

Below are two videos that the Archbishop of Canterbury posted on Holocaust Memorial Day. He asks us to "rediscover the depths of real humanity". I'm constantly amazed at how people have treated each other over the centuries. We've been horrible to each other. I wonder what it would be like if we took the Archbishop's advice and "rediscover the depths of real humanity".

This is a "Message for Holocaust Memorial Day"


The following are "Reflections on Auschwitz"


If you are interested in seeing more video from The Archbishop visit his YouTube page.

27 January 2009

EfM Reflections

So below is a copy of something I wrote in response to Parallel Guide 19 in EfM year one. I may be totally out of it, but this is what I thought of. Let me know what you think.

Year One read about Judges. We read about how the people of Isreal entered into a cycle. During a time when a judge was in place, they followed God's commandments. When the judge was no longer around the people would fall and return to worshipping the Baals. This led the reading to discuss the fourfold pattern: sin > punishment > repentance > deliverance and the back to sin again. It was this pattern that was on my mind while watching the Rob Bell video "Dust".

In the video Bell discusses what a disciple is. He talks about the schooling that children at the time of Jesus could have done. The first - until about the age of ten - focused the children on the Torah, and more specifically memorizing it. By the end of that, most students had gone on to learn their family trade. For the best of the best they moved on to the next step and memorized the rest of Hebrew Scriptures. By the end of that most children had moved on to their family trade. This was at about 15 years of age. But, the best of the best of the best applied to be disciples of a rabbi. The rabbi would test the kid, really grill them to see if they knew their stuff. More often than not the rabbi would tell the student to continue learning their family trade. But, if the rabbi thought the kid had really got it, the kid would leave everything and follow the rabbi. They would learn to do what the rabbi does - to become like the rabbi.

James and John, disciples of Jesus, were fishing when Jesus called them. That meant that they weren't the best of the best. They were the B-team, the JV. Jesus doesn't call the best of the best, Jesus calls all of us, the B-team, the JV, the anybodies. What made the people of Israel so special? Could they have been just another group of people? A group of anybodies? The B-Team?

A continuing theme in year one has been that God calls us through no big achievement of our own. From that it shows that God believes in us. I think that is part of the reason He doesn't give up on us. Why that fourfold pattern keeps continuing.

The other point I got out of Rob Bell video comes out of the Story of jesus walking on the water. Jesus is walking on the water and calls Peter to come to Him. Peter tkes one or two steps and sinks. Jesus saves him and says, "You of little faith. But who did Peter not have faith in? Jesus wasn't sinking. Peter didn't have faith in himself.

Maybe that was part of Israel's problem. They didn't have enough faith in themselves to continue on without their judge.

I wonder how are like the people of Israel. It seems to me that when things are going well, and when we have good leadership we have faith in ourselves - we continue in the work God calls us to. But, when things get hard, when we loose our leaders how easy is it to give up, to loose faith, and stop - or step back - in the ministry we are called to.

19 January 2009

Some thoughts on history

As you are all well aware we are on the eve of history. Tomorrow the first African-American president will take his oath of office. How fitting that this historic event happens the day after Martin Luther King Jr. Day. Could Dr. King ever have imagine that a short 45 years after his "I have a dream" speech that the leader of the free world would be black. No matter where you stand on the political issues, I think we can all be thankful and rejoice in the fact that a nation built on slavery has made such a major step towards equality.

This is the beginning of a new era, hopefully it will be a time when America will take seriously the words of the Declaration of Independence and strive to fulfill them. "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness."

In my parish we have spent a lot of time discussing MLK and Obama, and what all of this means for us. We've renewed our Baptismal covenant vowing to strive for justice and peace among all people, and respect the dignity of every human being. We've heard sermons on how we are all one and need to work together to tear down the walls that divide us: race, sexual orientation, gender, gender identity and expression, religion, and so many other things.

Last night The Rt. Rev'd V. Gene Robinson, Bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of New Hampshire (the first openly gay bishop in the Episcopal Church) offered the invocation at the inauguration ceremony. In it he asked God to bless us with anger: "Bless us with anger – at discrimination, at home and abroad, against refugees and immigrants, women, people of color, gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people."

May we all stand with our President-Elect (soon to be President) are work of equality for all. May we strive for the dignity and respect of every human being. May we stand up and be angry at discrimination. May we do this as one because "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female."
We can't give up, we must stand strong because your rights are not safe until my rights are safe and my rights are not safe until your rights are safe.

May this day be a reminder for us all of all the people who have come before us - those people on whose shoulders we stand continuing to fight for justice, peace, and equality. May tomorrow be a day of hope, a new page in the history of our country, and a step closer to fulfilling the dream of our founders and MLK.


Posted here below is the complete invocation offered by Bishop Robinson:

"A Prayer for the Nation and Our Next President, Barack Obama"
By The Rt. Rev. V. Gene Robinson, Episcopal Bishop of New Hampshire

Welcome to Washington! The fun is about to begin, but first, please join me in pausing for a moment, to ask God’s blessing upon our nation and our next president.

O God of our many understandings, we pray that you will…

Bless us with tears – for a world in which over a billion people exist on less than a dollar a day, where young women from many lands are beaten and raped for wanting an education, and thousands die daily from malnutrition, malaria, and AIDS.

Bless us with anger – at discrimination, at home and abroad, against refugees and immigrants, women, people of color, gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.

Bless us with discomfort – at the easy, simplistic “answers” we’ve preferred to hear from our politicians, instead of the truth, about ourselves and the world, which we need to face if we are going to rise to the challenges of the future.

Bless us with patience – and the knowledge that none of what ails us will be “fixed” anytime soon, and the understanding that our new president is a human being, not a messiah.

Bless us with humility – open to understanding that our own needs must always be balanced with those of the world.

Bless us with freedom from mere tolerance – replacing it with a genuine respect and warm embrace of our differences, and an understanding that in our diversity, we are stronger.

Bless us with compassion and generosity – remembering that every religion’s God judges us by the way we care for the most vulnerable in the human community, whether across town or across the world.

And God, we give you thanks for your child Barack, as he assumes the office of President of the United States.

Give him wisdom beyond his years, and inspire him with Lincoln’s reconciling leadership style, President Kennedy’s ability to enlist our best efforts, and Dr. King’s dream of a nation for ALL the people.

Give him a quiet heart, for our Ship of State needs a steady, calm captain in these times.

Give him stirring words, for we will need to be inspired and motivated to make the personal and common sacrifices necessary to facing the challenges ahead.

Make him color-blind, reminding him of his own words that under his leadership, there will be neither red nor blue states, but the United States.

Help him remember his own oppression as a minority, drawing on that experience of discrimination, that he might seek to change the lives of those who are still its victims.

Give him the strength to find family time and privacy, and help him remember that even though he is president, a father only gets one shot at his daughters’ childhoods.

And please, God, keep him safe. We know we ask too much of our presidents, and we’re asking FAR too much of this one. We know the risk he and his wife are taking for all of us, and we implore you, O good and great God, to keep him safe. Hold him in the palm of your hand – that he might do the work we have called him to do, that he might find joy in this impossible calling, and that in the end, he might lead us as a nation to a place of integrity, prosperity and peace.

AMEN.

Practical Advice for Young People Thinking About Ordination in The Episcopal Church

So I was cleaning out my desk the other day and came across this article called "Practical Advice for Young People Thinking About Ordination in The Episcopal Church". The article was written by The Right Reverend Dean E. Wolfe as part of his presentation to the Pathways for Ministry High School Conference held in April, 2006.

1. Attend an Episcopal Church and be active in worship. (This may seem obvious, but every now and then I speak with someone who thinks they may want to be a deacon or priest but who doesn't attend worship regularly or participate as an active part of an Episcopal faith community!)

2. Watch a variety of clergy. Find ways to work with them and assist them in their ministry so you can learn what they do. Notice both their giftedness and their failings. (God doesn't seem to call perfect people to Holy Orders.)

3. Read widely. History, Literature, the Bible, Poetry, Drama, Biography, Philosophy, Art, Science, Theology are all useful subjects. All human knowledge is ultimately connected to The Holy. Nothing you ever learn in any other field will be wasted in ordained ministry. (Knowledge of Computer Sciences, Teaching, Accounting, Marketing, Law, Medicine, even Concrete Testing . . . can all be effectively utilized in the service of the Church.)

4. Assert your Baptismal right to do ministry now! Look around your parish and decide what's being done poorly or, worse, not being done at all . . . an then do something about it! Be a Christian Activist. You don't need to wait until you are older.

5. Learn how to pry. Develop a comfortable, real, on-going conversational life with God. Talk to God about everything, including your future vocational plans.

6. Develop a variety of useful skills. Learn a foreign language. Learn how to write. Learn how to speak in public. Learn how to be helpful to people of all ages. Learn how to get something new started. Learn how to listen to people who are in trouble. Learn how to meet new people. Learn how to be helpful in crisis.

7. Develop healthy habits. Exercise, eat right, respect yourself as a part of God's Creation, live a balanced life, use good judgment in relationships, keep your word, develop good friends, participate in sports and hobbies which stretch you in some way.

8. Try being in charge. Learning how to be an effective leader is crucial for ordained clergy. In order to be in charge, you must learn to work collaboratively with a wide variety of people. Run for class office, be a leader on your team, lead extra-curricular activities at school, participate in leading a wide variety of events and activities.

9. Develop a healthy sense of humor. Clergy work closely with people who are going through times of great joy and great pain. Having a good sense of humor makes the difficult times more bearable. Learn to be positive and embrace joy.

10. Cultivate Tenacity. Christian ministry is hard and lots of people, both lay and ordained, just plain quit. Work on sticking difficult things out. Test your endurance. Try difficult things. Develop resilience. Get in shape emotionally, physically, and spiritually, "to run the race that has been set before us."

The Rt. Rev'd Dean Wolfe serves as Ninth Bishop of The Episcopal Diocese of Kansas. Consecrated bishop in 2003, Bishop Wolfe was formerly Vice Rector of Saint Michael and All Angels Church in Dallas, Texas. (The church where the conference was held at.)

16 January 2009

Rev. vs. Rev'd

So I recently noticed that my parish has started using Rev'd instead of Rev. I got into a conversation with someone about it and the differences of the two. I decided to dig up this old email form a friend that explains why we should be using Rev'd instead of Rev.

Here are the key differences:

Who uses it?
Rev. = Baptists
Rev'd = Anglicans

More specifically, who uses it?
Rev. = Pat Robertson
Rev'd = Rowan Williams

Which one looks good?
Rev. = tacky abbreviation
Rev'd = classy contraction

What about parishes in RI?
Rev. = clueless
Rev'd = cluetrain

How does it make God feel?
Rev. = sad
Rev'd = happy


Thanks SG+

14 January 2009

New Blog Link

So very excited to announce that St. Paul's has a blog. It can be found here.

19 December 2008

Santos Woodcarving Popsicles: Child becomes bishop for a Month!

Santos Woodcarving Popsicles: Child becomes bishop for a Month!

While I've only met him online, Peter Carey seems like a totally cool guy. On this lovely snowy day off I took sometime and checked out his blog. I stumbled across this post. What a great idea! Interested what the C of E is doing while our leadership is over here fighting.

04 December 2008

Prop 8: The Musical

So every once in a while something worth reading comes to my HOB/D email list. I was intregued when I read the subject line Jesus on YouTube, and the body of the email said Prop 8: The Musical. I laughed so hard I cried. I hope you enjoy it and that you become mindful of what a poweful impact the Episcopal Church can make in the lives of so many people.

See more Jack Black videos at Funny or Die

01 December 2008

An Advent Reflection

With the current situation in the life of the church, it is easy - and how I often do it - to think of the Archbishop of Canterbury as a political leadership. But, this video is an excellent remind of the spiritual leader that he his. Take ten minutes to watch this man give a reflection on Advent. It was a great way to start the day and get me feeling all "Adventy".



Tip of the crozier to Scott Gunn

Pray now buy later

So searching around the interwebs this morning I came across this video about an Advent Campaign that the C of E is running. Pretty cool stuff, and a great Advent message "Pray now buy later".



Thanks to Ruth Gledhill over at The Times Online for the post.

30 November 2008

Advent First! Join the Conspiracy



Today is the first Sunday of Advent. For me, it has been a wonderful day. Eucharist and making of Advent wreaths at St. Paul's and a beautiful service of Lessons and Carols at the convent of the Sisters of St. Margaret. It was great to take some time and worship, sit in silence, and listen.

Check out the video and the Advent Conspiracy website. Take some time to try some of this stuff out. Make this Christmas truly meaningful by reclaiming Advent.

29 November 2008

What's Happened to Christmas?

So over the Thanksgiving holiday, a couple of my relatives laughed at how I celebrate Christmas. I told them that I wait until sun down on the 24th of December to start my celebrations and conclude them on the 6th of January. I celebrate Advent: the time to prepare ourselves to welcome the new born Christ child. I know this isn't the normal thing to do, it is against everything that our culture tells us is the way to celebrate Christmas. But, last time I checked no one (and I'm referring particularly to the USA) died from celebrating Advent. On "Black Friday" two people were shot and killed in a Toys R Us in Florida. Around the corner from where I was in Long Island, a 34-year old Walmart greeter was trampled to death. It is a horrible reminder of what the majority of this society values. I challenge you this season to remember why we celebrate. I'm not saying gifts aren't good and that I won't be participating in gift giving, but how much are you willing to sacrifice for the latest and greatest toy?

Advent First!

Buy Nothing Christmas



So I found this over at SevenWholeDays. Thought I'd pass it along here.

21 November 2008

Prayer of Confession

This week in EfM we used the confession from the UCC as part of our worship. I really enjoyed the prayer, and honestly like this confession more than our own (By our own I mean the BCP confession). It really hits home for me, and for many others. I think it might be talking about how the whole "fake it till you make it thing" isn't so good.

Forgive me, O God, for pretending
Pretending to be whole when I am broken
Pretending to be strong when I am scared
Help me to be honest with myself and with others
Help me to share my weakness and doubt.
Help me, O God, to be the beautiful, unique, and imperfect person you call me to be.
Forgive me, O God, for pretending that everything is all right when I am silent in the face of injustice.
May my words and actions tell the truth,
And may strength and courage follow my humble acts of kindness.

20 November 2008

Remember: Faith Communities Can Save Transgender Lives

This was in my inbox this morning via Integrity's email list, and I thought I would pass it along to you.


The Transgender Day of Remembrance (November 20, 2008) is set aside to
remember those lost to anti-transgender violence in the last year. Much of
this violence is fueled by a sentiment that it is tacitly and explicitly
reinforced by narrow understandings of gender, as well as outright
transphobia and homophobia expressed in the name of a Christian God. Too
many of us have not only heard "God condemns you" -- but also "It would be
better if you were dead."
It is a profound and important step for every faith community to join in a
resounding chorus that condemns all forms of violence against people who are
differently gendered.

* By vocally condemning anti-trans bullying, harassment, and hate crimes, we
begin to chip away at the self-righteous fuel that feeds those who believe
they are doing God's will by punishing the differently gendered.
* By loudly proclaiming that people of all genders are beloved, we begin to
address the rampant rate of depression and suicide among transgender youth
and adults that so to often encouraged by religious judgment.
* By reaching out in love to the transgender community, we begin to
undermine the isolation and low self-esteem that can undergird substance
abuse and high-risk behaviors (which inform high rates of HIV and AIDS).

Beyond the hate and judgment, trans people's lives are at risk because we so
often struggle to meet our most fundamental needs such as safe employment
and basic health care. Faith communities need to be out in front of such
justice issues as well.

So, this year, let us (re)commit ourselves to the work of speaking up and
speaking out, to the work of educating ourselves and educating others, to
the work of reaching out in love.

Chris Paige
Publisher, TransFaith Online

Followup reading:

* NCTE Health Priorities: http://www.nctequality.org/HealthPriorities.pdf
* TransFaith InterSections: www.transfaithonline.org/intersections/
* TransFaith - Where do we begin?
www.transfaithonline.org/the_basics/where_do_i_begin/

Transgender Remembrance Day

Just a quick word before I run off to my next event.

Today is Transgender Remembrance Day. A day to remember all of our Trans Brothers and Sisters who have died as a result of their gender identity.

Please keep all of your Trans Brothers and Sisters in your hearts and in your prayers this day. And on behalf of us, don't take your priveldge to use a public restroom for granted.

17 November 2008

Gay, straight, black, white marriage is a civil right

I don't know how to convey my thoughts on prop 8, but as soon as I finish my EfM homework I'll try to figure that out. But, for now here is the projo video of the protest I went to on Saturday at the Statehouse. The slideshow on the blog is of pictures from the event.

Scrabble Tourney for J2A

So I was surfing the Projo site looking for coverage of the recent Prop 8 protest at the statehouse (more on that later) and came across this video. How exciting!

Click here to see what cool things are going on at St. Paul's.